We understand that physical wounds take time to he We understand that physical wounds take time to heal, but we tend to not see that’s also the case with emotional ones. 

You can still feel tender in an area even as you’re recovering and getting better at handling similar situations.

As a matter of fact, actually FEELING the hurt can be a significant part of the healing, because it means you’re acknowledging it and not *suppressing* it or *numbing* it.

And you’re probably building or rebuilding a new skill. Ask any person who has had to go thru physical therapy and let them tell you what a b!tch it was — but if they didn’t go thru that part of the recovery, they’d never operate in a healthy way again.

So if you have an emotional reaction to something when you thought you were over it, don’t beat yourself up. It doesn’t mean no progress has been made or that you’re starting over… just like a large, sensitive bruise doesn’t mean you that you never had surgery.

You might even have a *scar* there and that’s okay, too. There are a billion stages to healing ♥️ 

#selflovejourney❤️ #selflovetips #selfloveclub #selfhealing #selfhealingjourney
This kid is remembering, not learning… past life This kid is remembering, not learning… past life sh!t 

#reincarnation #souls #pastlives #pastlife #spiritualreels
I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, bu I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, but because I had *high-functioning* depression I didn’t have the “regular” symptoms I associated with the condition — so I didn’t even know I had it. Even when a therapist pointed it out to me, I scoffed.

THEN when I finally acknowledged that’s what was going on, I became a little too attached to the label. It became a sort of excuse to not deal with things.

The truth was that I didn’t want help. Or rather, I *did* want to feel better but it just felt too overwhelming and exhausting to try, to put the effort into it. I didn’t want to do the work because I didn’t have the ENERGY... and since I believe in reincarnation and the afterlife, I knew my soul would be fine (whereas I used to be afraid of d(e)ath) I just wanted to give up on this life. 

I tell you all this because it’s important to know that just because you’ve found yourself on a spiritual path doesn’t mean you’re going to magically be cured of your struggles. It means you have the tools to heal and progress — but tools are useless without a person to operate them.

The problem is you may not have the energy to swing a hammer or even raise a paintbrush. That’s okay. Start smaller, even if it’s something like scrolling Pinterest for interior decorating ideas.

This analogy may be getting a little out of control. What I’m getting at is that even when you don’t feel like applying any of this shit, keep surrounding yourself with good vibes. Read the books, watch the uplifting videos… surround yourself with people and content that spark something in your soul. Don’t give up, even if you need to pause and rest. The inspiration will come. 

#anxietyproblems #selflovetips #selflovejourney❤️ #spiritualreels #spiritualjourney #anxietytips
Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The F Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The Four Signs in determining whether your kid is remembering a past life or is just making shit up for fun. It should be noted that a child doesn’t have to exhibit ALL 4 signs for the memories to be valid. It could be any combination…

1. Matter-of-fact tone — It’s not just *what* the child is saying. It’s *how* they say it. It’s not something silly that’s just made up on the spot. It’s factual to them. It is said with the same confidence as telling you what their teacher’s name is or that they’re holding a blue cup of chocolate milk. Oftentimes, the kid’s tone and voice will change a bit - as though they are suddenly much older than their actual years. Like the child who said he was once “betrothed.” Kinda creepy, right?

2. Consistency over time — Think about all those criminal shows that teach us how to catch a person who is lying.  For one thing, when a person tells a lie (or a kid is just making up a story) it’s harder to keep the story straight if they have to tell it more than once. With untruths, you are *creating* something, not *remembering* it. So, yeah, if your kids is repeatedly telling you the same story of something that happened in his “old life” it’s probably a real memory. (This doesn’t mean he won’t possibly ADD to the story if he remembers more later.) 

3. Knowledge beyond experience - The internet is full of videos showcasing child prodigies. While every child who recalls a past life won’t be a 2yo concert pianist, it’s not uncommon for a kid to have shocking knowledge or a skill he didn’t learn from his family. And plenty of these cases existed long before iPads and YouTube.

Corresponding behavior and traits — This one kinda overlaps with the last sign, but it also includes things like phobias, strange food preferences, and mannerisms, etc. This may also show up as physical characteristics like a birthmark that corresponds with a fatal wound in the last life or as a birth defect ((like my son who was literally born with his intestines out of his body and had to be rushed into surgery)). Dr. Ian Stevenson did EXTENSIVE research on this particular category.
#reincarnation #pastlives
If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s yo If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s your reminder that your needs and wants are just as important as anyone else’s. Slow down, take a moment, do something wild and crazy and selfish like drink your coffee while it’s still hot 😂

#selfcarefirst #selflovetips #souls #souljourney #anxietyproblems
Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re bei Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re being pushed by fear and when you’re being inspired by joy.

If you’re panicking that a project won’t turn out perfectly, if you struggle to hear even minor criticism, if you have a meltdown the moment things don’t go as planned… That means more concerned with the outcome than the process. 

And THAT is a sign that you’ve been conditioned to believe you have to *earn* love…that your worth is determined by your accomplishments.

My darling, sweet soul. That is not true.

You don’t have to *do* anything. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.

So if you *do* decide to pursue something, let it be inspired by genuine interest and bliss. It’s hard for us action-based humans to grasp this, but that is the whole point of being here. 

#selfloveclub #recoveringperfectionist #recoveringpeoplepleaser #souls #souljourney #spiritualjourney
Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can be hard not knowing what comes next.
Watching an episode of Modern Family or The Office for the hundredth time is actually a pretty healthy way to deal with those anxious moments.

Meditation has been a  fantastic resource for me (and so is drinking water and getting in a good workout blah blah) but it won’t help you if it’s something you dread, something that feels boring, something that  feels like an obligation… 

BUT did you know that watching a funny show or a comforting movie is its own form of trance and can have similar benefits? You’re allowed to decompress without feeling guilty about it. It doesn’t make you less spiritual to watch Golden Girls. 
It’s actually a great way to raise your vibration ✨ 

#souljourney #spiritualreels #raiseyourvibration #selflovetips #anxietyproblems #anxietytips
This, of course, is not a comprehensive list. It’s not even a full list of all the books on the subject that I or have read. The point being there is *so* much valid material out there on reincarnation, past lives, souls, the afterlife, etc.

You can see a good list of books I recommend on my website (l i n k in b i o) or message/comment if you want to send you the l!nk. 

Feeling overwhelmed? Here are a few of my personal favorites to start with:

Life Before Life by Jim B Tucker, MD

Old Souls by Tom Shroder

Children Who Remember Previous Lives by Dr. Ian Stevenson

Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon

The Children that Time Forgot by Peter & Mary Harrison 

#reincarnation #souls #souljourney #pastlives #spiritualreels
The real question is does the plant *like* to be t The real question is does the plant *like* to be touched..? Does it feel like affection… or like being tickled… or is this poor plant cringing… Is it recoiling from me?? I need answers 😅😅
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All Reincarnation Posts, Reincarnation, Reincarnation Questions, Research on Reincarnation · January 20, 2023

Reincarnation Questions Answered: Why Don’t We All Remember Past Lives?

Your burning reincarnation questions answered By a scientist, a journalist, a medium, and multiple spiritual teachers.

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These type of reincarnation questions are the main reason I was personally so skeptical of reincarnation in the first place. If reincarnation is real, why don’t we all remember our past lives? Why is it that some people do remember — and why is it usually children?

I’ve collected information from various sources to answer these reincarnation questions. In the following paragraphs, you’ll see insight ranging from journalists and scientists to mediums and spiritual teachers. For me, the most fascinating aspect is how much these individuals seem to agree with each other. 

I think it’s worth reading through all of the details, but if you’re in a hurry, here’s the short answer.  It seems that we’re supposed to forget past lives so that we can focus appropriately on the current life. The other side of that coin is that we usually *do* remember at first - which is part of the reason we don’t talk for the first year or two of life. 

Reincarnation Questions Answered by a Scientist: Maybe Remembering Is a Defect

In his book Old Souls, award-winning journalist Tom Shroder details his experiences following the famous Dr. Ian Stevenson. They trekked through multiple countries, visiting children who claim to remember previous lives. They interviewed as many witnesses as possible.

In Chapter 5, he quotes Dr. Stevenson making a remark about why most of us don’t automatically remember our past lives. “Maybe remembering is a defect,” he said. “Maybe we’re supposed to forget, but sometimes that system malfunctions, and we don’t forget completely.”

Shroder finds himself thinking, “Either violence tended to imprint itself on a soul, interfering with the usual process of forgetting, or whatever forces created false memories of previous lives had a penchant for the dramatic.”

In one of his own books, Children Who Remember Previous Lives, Dr. Stevenson devotes an entire section to this topic. He addresses his theories on what kind of persons are mostly likely to remember a past life and “what other circumstances seem to assist or to block the emergence of memories.”

Trauma & Past Life Memories

I highly recommend reading this book yourself for a more thorough and well-executed explanation, but here’s the gist. Dr. Stevenson theorizes that people who died violently, or abruptly, or while still in childhood, or who had significant unfinished business — or any combination of these factors — are more likely to remember their lives the next time around. He also addresses the fact that there must be much more to it than that. Obviously not every person who has died violently or abruptly seems to come back with memories of the event. 

I would like to add a reminder here that we all respond to things differently. A trauma in one person’s childhood may haunt them and give them nightmares throughout their adulthood. Meanwhile another person experiencing a similar trauma may completely block it out. I imagine this is also true with past life memories.  

Reincarnation Questions Answered by Spiritual Teachers

It seems Dr. Stevenson may be on to something when he says it’s a glitch. Many spiritual teachers say that while it’s important to understand reincarnation is true, it can be distracting to remember our past lives. Since we’re supposed to focus on this current life, forgetting the previous ones is a gift.

This next excerpt is from a live speaking event of Abraham Hicks. (You could easily locate a video of it on YouTube.)

“It isn't that you don't remember — because you have access to infinite intelligence. It's that you came wanting to refocus... how difficult it sometimes is to let go of a belief… So you came with the intention of being in that fresh free place ... The death experience -- there isn't any death, but what you call death -- is sort of a clearing process where you leave behind all doubt and fear and resistance reemerge into nonphysical, and then from those intentions you come forth again. It's really the perfect plan.”

Here are some insights from metaphysical teacher and author Dolores Cannon:

"Many people ask me why we don’t remember our past lives. They think it would help a lot if we consciously knew about these karmic connections. It wouldn’t; it would make things too complicated. Can you imagine how difficult it would be to function in the everyday world if you had the memories of countless past lives constantly bombarding you? You would never be able to concentrate on the lessons you have to work out during this lifetime."

"Is it better to forget before you come back again? In many cases, yes… Otherwise the person would be continually trying to get back into the life that they led before…"

Examples of Being Unable to Move On

Dr. Stevenson has several cases that showcase this exact problem, where people who have past life memories spend this lifetime pining for their previous families. I recently wrote an in-depth post about Jasbir Singh that you can read about here. Jasbir — a standout case because of its walk-in soul aspect — dealt with depression,  particularly because he missed his children and his wealth. Additionally, his present-lifetime family struggled to deal with his connection to the past life family and the way he treated them by comparison.

Another example is Suzanne Ghanem who still remembered her past life well into her adulthood. She could not find a lasting romantic relationship because she was still in love with -- and in touch — with her husband - from the life before. Though there was huge age gap between them and her past-husband had already remarried, Suzanne could not let him go.

Tom Shroder says that during an interview her previous-husband claimed he had stopped going to see her, though she still visited him once or twice a month. He wanted to discourage her so that she would move on and embrace the current life. Shroder quoted her husband as saying, “I just worry about her. This can’t be good for her. I still want to go, but I am denying myself for her sake.”

Why Is It Some People Do Remember?

Dolores Cannon is kinda the queen of answering reincarnation questions, so I’ll just quote her directly here. All of these are excerpts from her book Between Death and Life.

"Are there cases where it would be better if they didn’t forget? In those cases there is something to be learned from the previous existence that has direct bearing on what they are to go through and experience in this life."

"Sometimes when you’re a young child you remember your past connections because you’re still close to it. But then the memories you get in future years bury these memories and you forget, although they’re there in your subconscious…"

"From the work I have done with regressions, I have developed a theory about children and memories of past lives. When the soul enters the body the memories are still very close to the surface. It must be very frustrating to suddenly find yourself entrapped within the body of a baby unable to communicate… During the first two years the spirit becomes so involved with in learning to make this new body work and learning to communicate again that the memories are muted and pushed into the background. The few children who do still remember and try to tell people are usually criticized or ridiculed until they stop trying…"

More Insight from Dr. Stevenson’s Research

Dolores’s comment about the frustration of being “entrapped” within a baby’s body reminds me of one of Dr. Stevenson’s cases about a man named Parmod Sharma. He is quoted as saying, “I was sitting in a bathtub, and my feet have become small.” (The previous personality had been taking a naturopathic bath before he died and suddenly found himself in a tiny body.) 

Shroder relays another story from Dr. Stevenson. “I had a case in Thailand of a man who, as a child remembered having lived the life of his mother’s brother. He said that he has a clear memory from his infancy in this life: When he was on his back, he felt he was an adult man and had all the memories of a previous life. But every so often, meddlesome adults would turn him over and he was then nothing but a small little baby, helpless in the cradle. Like a tortoise, he would struggle to get himself flipped over on his back again.”

Dr. Stevenson brings up the possibility and even likelihood of babies having imaged memories they're unable to speak about. One man directly said as much. Ven. Chaokhun Rajsuthajarn claims that when he was only an infant, he remembered all the details of his past life. 

In another case, Shroder writes, "… the child’s claims concerning a previous life seemed to predate his ability to speak. His parents said that as soon as he learned to walk, every chance he got he would take off toward a neighboring village… They were constantly running after him, and would have to pick him up and carry him back to their home.”

This same child also had 2 birthmarks on his chest and as soon as he was able to talk, he would point to the marks and tell them he was shot there. He also named his murderers and the place he was killed. You guessed it — the same village he used to run to before he could even speak. 

But Wait, There’s More

Even though this post is already longer than I intended it to be, I wouldn’t feel right without including a few insights from Seth/Jane Roberts on the topic. (For lack of a better word, Jane is generally considered a medium and Seth is the nonphysical personality she primarily worked with.) 

It should be noted that Seth teaches heavily on the concept that "past" lives are actually all happening simultaneously. He says that time is an illusion created specifically for our experiences on Earth. I figured it would be best to save that topic for another day, but I wanted to mention it in case you've read any of my previous posts, so that it wouldn't feel like a contradiction. The following excerpts can be found in the book Seth Speaks. 

"Normal waking consciousness, while having memory of itself, obviously does not retain all memory all of the time. It is said that memory of past events drops back into the subconscious. It is still intensely alive, and by alive I mean living and active, although you do not focus upon it. Inner portions of your personality also have memory of all of your dreams. These exist simultaneously, and suspended, so to speak, like lights over a dark city, illuminating various portions of the psyche. These memory systems are all interconnected. Now in the same way you have your memory of past lives, all quite complete and all operating in the entire memory system."

"Whether or not you remember your dreams, for example, a certain portion of you, under hypnosis, could remember every dream that you ever had in your life."

"You realize that your early memories are sparse. Most of you remember little of the years spent as an infant and child. You make use of the knowledge gained then, and while it is part of you, you are not aware of it consciously; and so you are not consciously aware of other reincarnational existences."

Reincarnation Answers Just Lead to More Questions

I hope this information resonates with you and brings some clarity. But if you’re anything like me, even satisfactory answers to your reincarnation questions only lead to more questions - ha. I’ll continue researching and writing about the topic. In the meantime, here are some books you might want to check out!

Old Souls by Tom Shroder 

Children Who Remember Previous Lives by Ian Stevenson, M.D. 

Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon

The Children that Time Forgot by Peter and Mary Harrison

Seth Speaks by Jane Roberts

The Vortex by Abraham Hicks 

Children's Past Lives: How Past Life Memories Affect Your Child by Carol Bowman

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We understand that physical wounds take time to he We understand that physical wounds take time to heal, but we tend to not see that’s also the case with emotional ones. 

You can still feel tender in an area even as you’re recovering and getting better at handling similar situations.

As a matter of fact, actually FEELING the hurt can be a significant part of the healing, because it means you’re acknowledging it and not *suppressing* it or *numbing* it.

And you’re probably building or rebuilding a new skill. Ask any person who has had to go thru physical therapy and let them tell you what a b!tch it was — but if they didn’t go thru that part of the recovery, they’d never operate in a healthy way again.

So if you have an emotional reaction to something when you thought you were over it, don’t beat yourself up. It doesn’t mean no progress has been made or that you’re starting over… just like a large, sensitive bruise doesn’t mean you that you never had surgery.

You might even have a *scar* there and that’s okay, too. There are a billion stages to healing ♥️ 

#selflovejourney❤️ #selflovetips #selfloveclub #selfhealing #selfhealingjourney
This kid is remembering, not learning… past life This kid is remembering, not learning… past life sh!t 

#reincarnation #souls #pastlives #pastlife #spiritualreels
I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, bu I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, but because I had *high-functioning* depression I didn’t have the “regular” symptoms I associated with the condition — so I didn’t even know I had it. Even when a therapist pointed it out to me, I scoffed.

THEN when I finally acknowledged that’s what was going on, I became a little too attached to the label. It became a sort of excuse to not deal with things.

The truth was that I didn’t want help. Or rather, I *did* want to feel better but it just felt too overwhelming and exhausting to try, to put the effort into it. I didn’t want to do the work because I didn’t have the ENERGY... and since I believe in reincarnation and the afterlife, I knew my soul would be fine (whereas I used to be afraid of d(e)ath) I just wanted to give up on this life. 

I tell you all this because it’s important to know that just because you’ve found yourself on a spiritual path doesn’t mean you’re going to magically be cured of your struggles. It means you have the tools to heal and progress — but tools are useless without a person to operate them.

The problem is you may not have the energy to swing a hammer or even raise a paintbrush. That’s okay. Start smaller, even if it’s something like scrolling Pinterest for interior decorating ideas.

This analogy may be getting a little out of control. What I’m getting at is that even when you don’t feel like applying any of this shit, keep surrounding yourself with good vibes. Read the books, watch the uplifting videos… surround yourself with people and content that spark something in your soul. Don’t give up, even if you need to pause and rest. The inspiration will come. 

#anxietyproblems #selflovetips #selflovejourney❤️ #spiritualreels #spiritualjourney #anxietytips
Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The F Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The Four Signs in determining whether your kid is remembering a past life or is just making shit up for fun. It should be noted that a child doesn’t have to exhibit ALL 4 signs for the memories to be valid. It could be any combination…

1. Matter-of-fact tone — It’s not just *what* the child is saying. It’s *how* they say it. It’s not something silly that’s just made up on the spot. It’s factual to them. It is said with the same confidence as telling you what their teacher’s name is or that they’re holding a blue cup of chocolate milk. Oftentimes, the kid’s tone and voice will change a bit - as though they are suddenly much older than their actual years. Like the child who said he was once “betrothed.” Kinda creepy, right?

2. Consistency over time — Think about all those criminal shows that teach us how to catch a person who is lying.  For one thing, when a person tells a lie (or a kid is just making up a story) it’s harder to keep the story straight if they have to tell it more than once. With untruths, you are *creating* something, not *remembering* it. So, yeah, if your kids is repeatedly telling you the same story of something that happened in his “old life” it’s probably a real memory. (This doesn’t mean he won’t possibly ADD to the story if he remembers more later.) 

3. Knowledge beyond experience - The internet is full of videos showcasing child prodigies. While every child who recalls a past life won’t be a 2yo concert pianist, it’s not uncommon for a kid to have shocking knowledge or a skill he didn’t learn from his family. And plenty of these cases existed long before iPads and YouTube.

Corresponding behavior and traits — This one kinda overlaps with the last sign, but it also includes things like phobias, strange food preferences, and mannerisms, etc. This may also show up as physical characteristics like a birthmark that corresponds with a fatal wound in the last life or as a birth defect ((like my son who was literally born with his intestines out of his body and had to be rushed into surgery)). Dr. Ian Stevenson did EXTENSIVE research on this particular category.
#reincarnation #pastlives
If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s yo If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s your reminder that your needs and wants are just as important as anyone else’s. Slow down, take a moment, do something wild and crazy and selfish like drink your coffee while it’s still hot 😂

#selfcarefirst #selflovetips #souls #souljourney #anxietyproblems
Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re bei Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re being pushed by fear and when you’re being inspired by joy.

If you’re panicking that a project won’t turn out perfectly, if you struggle to hear even minor criticism, if you have a meltdown the moment things don’t go as planned… That means more concerned with the outcome than the process. 

And THAT is a sign that you’ve been conditioned to believe you have to *earn* love…that your worth is determined by your accomplishments.

My darling, sweet soul. That is not true.

You don’t have to *do* anything. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.

So if you *do* decide to pursue something, let it be inspired by genuine interest and bliss. It’s hard for us action-based humans to grasp this, but that is the whole point of being here. 

#selfloveclub #recoveringperfectionist #recoveringpeoplepleaser #souls #souljourney #spiritualjourney
Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can be hard not knowing what comes next.
Watching an episode of Modern Family or The Office for the hundredth time is actually a pretty healthy way to deal with those anxious moments.

Meditation has been a  fantastic resource for me (and so is drinking water and getting in a good workout blah blah) but it won’t help you if it’s something you dread, something that feels boring, something that  feels like an obligation… 

BUT did you know that watching a funny show or a comforting movie is its own form of trance and can have similar benefits? You’re allowed to decompress without feeling guilty about it. It doesn’t make you less spiritual to watch Golden Girls. 
It’s actually a great way to raise your vibration ✨ 

#souljourney #spiritualreels #raiseyourvibration #selflovetips #anxietyproblems #anxietytips
This, of course, is not a comprehensive list. It’s not even a full list of all the books on the subject that I or have read. The point being there is *so* much valid material out there on reincarnation, past lives, souls, the afterlife, etc.

You can see a good list of books I recommend on my website (l i n k in b i o) or message/comment if you want to send you the l!nk. 

Feeling overwhelmed? Here are a few of my personal favorites to start with:

Life Before Life by Jim B Tucker, MD

Old Souls by Tom Shroder

Children Who Remember Previous Lives by Dr. Ian Stevenson

Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon

The Children that Time Forgot by Peter & Mary Harrison 

#reincarnation #souls #souljourney #pastlives #spiritualreels
The real question is does the plant *like* to be t The real question is does the plant *like* to be touched..? Does it feel like affection… or like being tickled… or is this poor plant cringing… Is it recoiling from me?? I need answers 😅😅
Honestly, what the f*ck were we thinking? 😅 #r Honestly, what the f*ck were we thinking? 😅

#reincarnation #souljourney #pastlife #souls #dolorescannon

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