We understand that physical wounds take time to he We understand that physical wounds take time to heal, but we tend to not see that’s also the case with emotional ones. 

You can still feel tender in an area even as you’re recovering and getting better at handling similar situations.

As a matter of fact, actually FEELING the hurt can be a significant part of the healing, because it means you’re acknowledging it and not *suppressing* it or *numbing* it.

And you’re probably building or rebuilding a new skill. Ask any person who has had to go thru physical therapy and let them tell you what a b!tch it was — but if they didn’t go thru that part of the recovery, they’d never operate in a healthy way again.

So if you have an emotional reaction to something when you thought you were over it, don’t beat yourself up. It doesn’t mean no progress has been made or that you’re starting over… just like a large, sensitive bruise doesn’t mean you that you never had surgery.

You might even have a *scar* there and that’s okay, too. There are a billion stages to healing ♥️ 

#selflovejourney❤️ #selflovetips #selfloveclub #selfhealing #selfhealingjourney
This kid is remembering, not learning… past life This kid is remembering, not learning… past life sh!t 

#reincarnation #souls #pastlives #pastlife #spiritualreels
I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, bu I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, but because I had *high-functioning* depression I didn’t have the “regular” symptoms I associated with the condition — so I didn’t even know I had it. Even when a therapist pointed it out to me, I scoffed.

THEN when I finally acknowledged that’s what was going on, I became a little too attached to the label. It became a sort of excuse to not deal with things.

The truth was that I didn’t want help. Or rather, I *did* want to feel better but it just felt too overwhelming and exhausting to try, to put the effort into it. I didn’t want to do the work because I didn’t have the ENERGY... and since I believe in reincarnation and the afterlife, I knew my soul would be fine (whereas I used to be afraid of d(e)ath) I just wanted to give up on this life. 

I tell you all this because it’s important to know that just because you’ve found yourself on a spiritual path doesn’t mean you’re going to magically be cured of your struggles. It means you have the tools to heal and progress — but tools are useless without a person to operate them.

The problem is you may not have the energy to swing a hammer or even raise a paintbrush. That’s okay. Start smaller, even if it’s something like scrolling Pinterest for interior decorating ideas.

This analogy may be getting a little out of control. What I’m getting at is that even when you don’t feel like applying any of this shit, keep surrounding yourself with good vibes. Read the books, watch the uplifting videos… surround yourself with people and content that spark something in your soul. Don’t give up, even if you need to pause and rest. The inspiration will come. 

#anxietyproblems #selflovetips #selflovejourney❤️ #spiritualreels #spiritualjourney #anxietytips
Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The F Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The Four Signs in determining whether your kid is remembering a past life or is just making shit up for fun. It should be noted that a child doesn’t have to exhibit ALL 4 signs for the memories to be valid. It could be any combination…

1. Matter-of-fact tone — It’s not just *what* the child is saying. It’s *how* they say it. It’s not something silly that’s just made up on the spot. It’s factual to them. It is said with the same confidence as telling you what their teacher’s name is or that they’re holding a blue cup of chocolate milk. Oftentimes, the kid’s tone and voice will change a bit - as though they are suddenly much older than their actual years. Like the child who said he was once “betrothed.” Kinda creepy, right?

2. Consistency over time — Think about all those criminal shows that teach us how to catch a person who is lying.  For one thing, when a person tells a lie (or a kid is just making up a story) it’s harder to keep the story straight if they have to tell it more than once. With untruths, you are *creating* something, not *remembering* it. So, yeah, if your kids is repeatedly telling you the same story of something that happened in his “old life” it’s probably a real memory. (This doesn’t mean he won’t possibly ADD to the story if he remembers more later.) 

3. Knowledge beyond experience - The internet is full of videos showcasing child prodigies. While every child who recalls a past life won’t be a 2yo concert pianist, it’s not uncommon for a kid to have shocking knowledge or a skill he didn’t learn from his family. And plenty of these cases existed long before iPads and YouTube.

Corresponding behavior and traits — This one kinda overlaps with the last sign, but it also includes things like phobias, strange food preferences, and mannerisms, etc. This may also show up as physical characteristics like a birthmark that corresponds with a fatal wound in the last life or as a birth defect ((like my son who was literally born with his intestines out of his body and had to be rushed into surgery)). Dr. Ian Stevenson did EXTENSIVE research on this particular category.
#reincarnation #pastlives
If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s yo If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s your reminder that your needs and wants are just as important as anyone else’s. Slow down, take a moment, do something wild and crazy and selfish like drink your coffee while it’s still hot 😂

#selfcarefirst #selflovetips #souls #souljourney #anxietyproblems
Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re bei Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re being pushed by fear and when you’re being inspired by joy.

If you’re panicking that a project won’t turn out perfectly, if you struggle to hear even minor criticism, if you have a meltdown the moment things don’t go as planned… That means more concerned with the outcome than the process. 

And THAT is a sign that you’ve been conditioned to believe you have to *earn* love…that your worth is determined by your accomplishments.

My darling, sweet soul. That is not true.

You don’t have to *do* anything. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.

So if you *do* decide to pursue something, let it be inspired by genuine interest and bliss. It’s hard for us action-based humans to grasp this, but that is the whole point of being here. 

#selfloveclub #recoveringperfectionist #recoveringpeoplepleaser #souls #souljourney #spiritualjourney
Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can be hard not knowing what comes next.
Watching an episode of Modern Family or The Office for the hundredth time is actually a pretty healthy way to deal with those anxious moments.

Meditation has been a  fantastic resource for me (and so is drinking water and getting in a good workout blah blah) but it won’t help you if it’s something you dread, something that feels boring, something that  feels like an obligation… 

BUT did you know that watching a funny show or a comforting movie is its own form of trance and can have similar benefits? You’re allowed to decompress without feeling guilty about it. It doesn’t make you less spiritual to watch Golden Girls. 
It’s actually a great way to raise your vibration ✨ 

#souljourney #spiritualreels #raiseyourvibration #selflovetips #anxietyproblems #anxietytips
This, of course, is not a comprehensive list. It’s not even a full list of all the books on the subject that I or have read. The point being there is *so* much valid material out there on reincarnation, past lives, souls, the afterlife, etc.

You can see a good list of books I recommend on my website (l i n k in b i o) or message/comment if you want to send you the l!nk. 

Feeling overwhelmed? Here are a few of my personal favorites to start with:

Life Before Life by Jim B Tucker, MD

Old Souls by Tom Shroder

Children Who Remember Previous Lives by Dr. Ian Stevenson

Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon

The Children that Time Forgot by Peter & Mary Harrison 

#reincarnation #souls #souljourney #pastlives #spiritualreels
The real question is does the plant *like* to be t The real question is does the plant *like* to be touched..? Does it feel like affection… or like being tickled… or is this poor plant cringing… Is it recoiling from me?? I need answers 😅😅
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All Reincarnation Posts, Reincarnation, True Stories of Reincarnation · June 1, 2023

The Extraordinary Reincarnation of a Man Who Was Born with a Bleeding Birthmark that Matched the Fatal Wound of His Past Life

The reincarnation of Cemil Hayik - a true story and a legend.

reincarnation of Cemil Hayik

The Reincarnation of Cemil Hayik, a local legend. Photo from Unsplash/Adam Wilson 

The extraordinary reincarnation of a man named Cemil honestly sounds more like a movie plot more than a true story. But it’s all real, folks. Even if we can’t definitively *prove* the reincarnation aspect, the fact remains that a man in Turkey lived a fascinating life, becoming a local legend. And 2 days after that man’s death, a child was born who grew up to have compelling evidence that he was, in truth, the reincarnation of that man. 

Personally, I’m a believer. A recovering skeptic, if you will. But this case is strong enough that even the toughest critic just might be a little more open to the idea of past lives. 

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The Reincarnation of… Who?

First things first, let me give you all the dirt on this folk hero. Cemil Hayik lived in the Hatay province of Turkey in the 1930’s, and he was an outlaw of the Robin Hood type. (In his book Reincarnation and Biology, Volume 1, Dr. Ian Stevenson specifically makes that comparison, even though there’s no known “real life” Robin Hood.)

Cemil didn’t steal to give to the poor per se, but if he jumped out of the woods to rob you, he only took enough money to buy himself some food and cigarettes. He never took more than he needed and he never hurt anybody.

Except for those times he murdered a few people. But he only killed people who snitched to the police about his whereabouts or who hurt his family. Case in point: two men, including a rejected suitor, raped two of his sisters. Cemil did what he felt was necessary. He killed the men and eventually turned himself in.

Though he garnered much support and sympathy from people, he was ultimately sentenced to death at his trial. And Cemil wasn’t ready to die yet. He faked an illness so that he could be transported to a hospital. It was there that his wife was allowed to visit him, and he promptly traded clothes with her so that he could escape.

And it worked. (I told you it sounds like a movie plot.)

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Family of Thieves

In his defense, banditry was kinda a family business for the Hayiks. His father was the leader in a group of bandits, and Cemil basically became his apprentice. They were all wanted (“the object of an intense hunt”) by the French police.

This is important because not only does it lead to Cemil’s eventual death, but it further explains why so many people sympathized with Cemil and the Hayiks. While the government of Turkey was working peacefully to have Hatay returned to them, most people in the country saw the French as being their oppressors. 

That said, it must also be noted that the Hayiks belonged to the Arab minority and wanted Hatay to be a part of Syria. It’s complicated… But at the end of the day, the Hayiks relied on the aid of the mountain people. Sometimes those people were happy to help. Other times they were simply afraid not to. 

The Dramatic Death of a Hero

It was about 2 years from the time Cemil had escaped from the hospital in his wife’s clothes, when he and his brother Ibrahim (also in the family business of being an outlaw) were in the home of someone who ultimately betrayed them. The man of the house secretly got a message to the French police and soon there was a whole squad surrounding the place. 

A dramatic shootout ensued. Cemil and Ibrahim held their own. One of their sisters said they killed 3 officers and injured 7 others. That was before the French police got the idea to set the roof of the house on fire. 

The brothers stopped shooting. Everything was quiet. Then 2 single shots were heard. More silence.

(I mentioned the whole movie-worth thing, yes?)

Some of the officers decided to venture into the house before the whole house went up in flames. They saw streaks of blood on the floor, implying one body had been dragged. Both men lay dead, their heads pointing south toward Mecca.

It was clear that the brothers had one intention. They wanted to be sure everyone would know they’d taken their own lives before allowing the French gendarmes to do it.

The Reincarnation of Cemil

Cemil Hayik’s death was public knowledge. The French police had displayed his body (and his brother’s) in front of the courthouse for 2 days. This was supposed to discourage other criminals, I assume.

The day after his death, a distant relative named Mikail Fahrici had a dream Cemil entered his house. The next day, Mikail’s wife gave birth to their son. The baby had a distinct, oozing birthmark on his neck - in the same location where Cemil had put a gun to his own throat to end his life. 

Do you find the dream part to be odd or suspicious? It’s actually quite common in reincarnation cases. They’re called announcing dreams. Dr. Ian Stevenson saw this so often that he dedicated a large part of his research specifically to this aspect. You can also learn more about the role of dreams in reincarnation by reading books like Seth Speaks by Jane Roberts or Children’s Past Lives by Carol Bowman. 

Also,  if you’re confused about how Cemil could be reborn two days after his death (as opposed to needing to be present for conception) please read my post How Long Does It Take to Reincarnate? There’s a lot of good information in there about when the soul enters the human body.

Let’s Talk about that Birthmark

Days after arriving home, the parents had to return to the hospital with their new baby. His birthmark was bleeding like an open wound, and in fact, it had to be stitched up. It took over a month to fully heal, and even then it would still flare up and bleed on occasion. 

It was also reported that as he grew older, he suffered interior mouth pain. He would have toothaches in that area in addition to the impaired growth of the teeth there. 

The birthmark was still quite visible into adulthood, as his beard would not grow in that spot. To take things to the next level (as if a bleeding birthmark were not enough), Dr. Stevenson had a brilliant idea while doing follow-up interviews on the case a few years later.

At least 2 interviewees who had seen Cemil’s dead body had mentioned how the bullet had emerged through the top of his skull. Dr. Stevenson wondered, shouldn’t that mean that the person claiming to be Cemil reborn would also have a birthmark representing the exit wound?

(For the record, I think the answer to that could be complicated, depending on the individual case.)

Dr. Stevenson and one of his associates returned to the Fahrici family.   Without specifying a particular location, they asked the man if he had any other birthmarks. He immediately pointed to the top of his head. In the photos included in his book (see the image below), Dr. Stevenson showcases the man’s second birthmark and an autopsy photo from a person killed of a gunshot wound. They look eerily similar, and if that doesn’t give you chills, then you’re not me. 

reincarnation of Cemil Hayik - birthmark photo compared to exit wound

Birthmark compared to exit wound / Reincarnation and Biology, Volume I by Ian Stevenson, M.D.

Other Details Indicating the Reincarnation of Cemil

The strength of this case is in the physical evidence (the 2 birthmarks) but it’s only fair to include all of the fascinating details. You may have noticed that as of yet, I haven’t told you the name of the person claiming to be Cemil Hayik reborn. That’s because it’s part of the evidence.

When the baby was born, his parents named him Dahham. As soon as he could speak, around age 2, the kid asserted he was Cemil Hayik and gave details to support his case. He refused to be called his given name, insisting everyone call him Cemil. 

I know what you’re thinking. Perhaps because his father had had the announcing dream and Cemil Hayik had been so infamous, the parents had potentially created an environment that led the child to believe he was or at least wanted to be Cemil. This is a logical response, but it also shows a lack of understanding of that culture.

Reincarnation Beliefs of the Parents

Just because people believe in reincarnation doesn’t mean they want their family members to recall their previous lives. (Many, many people believe we forget or “come under the veil” for good reason.) And rarely, if ever, are they seeking fame or attention. Quite the opposite. Oftentimes, the parents are afraid that the members of the previous personality’s family will hear about the situation and will seek out their child and claim the kid for themselves. (In this case, that’s exactly what happened!)

For this reason, when a person is young and claiming to remember a past life, the parents go through great lengths to quiet them — or at least to keep them from talking about the memories outside of their home. In this case, the parents would put bitter substances in his mouth or even spit at him when he spoke of his past life.

It was only after pure exasperation that the parents gave up on their methods and sought out a religious leader to guide them. Their child would cry frequently and completely freak out if they called him anything other than Cemil. The hoca advised them to give in. Changing his name had a dramatic, calming effect and he never went back to his birth name. 

Other Notable Evidence

Cemil (the second one, that is) suffered frequently from violent nightmares about his past life. In his waking hours, he wavered from fear of the police to outright disdain for them. Usually he leaned into the anger. 

There are multiple stories of how he would throw stones at men in uniform or pick up a stick and aim it at them, pretending he had a gun. In one instance, he tried to steal his father’s actual rifle so that he could shoot some French soldiers. (He wasn’t even 4 years old yet when this happened!)

Though Cemil Hayik was a well-known man, the second Cemil must have had enough compelling evidence that wasn’t known to the general public. He convinced the Hayik family to the extent that, as mentioned earlier, they asked the Fahrici parents to allow them to adopt him. They felt he belonged to them first and they wanted him back.

Though the Fahrici family declined the adoption request, the Hayik family did not give up. Eventually they settled with being allowed an affectionate relationship with him. They visited often, usually bringing him gifts, and Cemil cried when they left. The relationship continued into his adulthood. 

One More Odd Little Thing

I would be remiss to not mention the fact that years later, Dr. Stevenson learned of another man who had claimed to be the reincarnation of Cemil Hayik. His evidence was not as compelling - though he did have a large birthmark at the top of his head, and as a child, he had claimed to have memories of the infamous outlaw.

Dr. Stevenson did not personally investigate this case, but he had a few theories on the situation based on the evidence he was given. In particular, he supposed that the child may have never named himself as Cemil Hayik but had claimed to remember the life of a bandit. Perhaps his family had simply surmised, in conjunction with the birthmark, that he was referring to Cemil Hayik.

This would not be the first time that multiple people have claimed to have been the same famous person in the past. Maybe some of these people are fantasizing or outright lying. But there are other explanations including psychic abilities, imprinting, and split souls. Hmm, maybe I have the topic for my next post…

Further Reading

While the earlier part of his life was a bit dramatic, Cemil Fahrici went on to lead a peaceful life as a prosperous baker. If you want to learn more about the reincarnation of Cemil, or if you’re interested in reading about past lives in general, I’m including the following list of book suggestions. You can also check out my post The Best Books about Reincarnation for a more in depth list. 

Life Before Life: A Scientific Investigation of Children's Memories of Previous Lives by Jim B. Tucker, M.D.

Old Souls by Tom Shroder

Where Reincarnation and Biology Intersect by Ian Stevenson, M.D.

Children's Past Lives: How Past Life Memories Affect Your Child by Carol Bowman

Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon

Children Who Remember Previous Lives by Ian Stevenson, M.D.

My primary resource for this post was Reincarnation and Biology, Volume I by Ian Stevenson, M.D. but it is an academic book and very expensive (at least a few hundred dollars). It's probably not the best one to start with, but if you have serious interest in learning about scientific proof of reincarnation, it's a fantastic investment. 

FYI, these are affiliate links, which just means that I get a tiny percentage if you happen to purchase any of the books while using my links. (It doesn’t cost you anything extra.) Even if you don’t purchase, you can still click the links to read more about the books.

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We understand that physical wounds take time to he We understand that physical wounds take time to heal, but we tend to not see that’s also the case with emotional ones. 

You can still feel tender in an area even as you’re recovering and getting better at handling similar situations.

As a matter of fact, actually FEELING the hurt can be a significant part of the healing, because it means you’re acknowledging it and not *suppressing* it or *numbing* it.

And you’re probably building or rebuilding a new skill. Ask any person who has had to go thru physical therapy and let them tell you what a b!tch it was — but if they didn’t go thru that part of the recovery, they’d never operate in a healthy way again.

So if you have an emotional reaction to something when you thought you were over it, don’t beat yourself up. It doesn’t mean no progress has been made or that you’re starting over… just like a large, sensitive bruise doesn’t mean you that you never had surgery.

You might even have a *scar* there and that’s okay, too. There are a billion stages to healing ♥️ 

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This kid is remembering, not learning… past life This kid is remembering, not learning… past life sh!t 

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I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, bu I was well aware of my anxiety for a long time, but because I had *high-functioning* depression I didn’t have the “regular” symptoms I associated with the condition — so I didn’t even know I had it. Even when a therapist pointed it out to me, I scoffed.

THEN when I finally acknowledged that’s what was going on, I became a little too attached to the label. It became a sort of excuse to not deal with things.

The truth was that I didn’t want help. Or rather, I *did* want to feel better but it just felt too overwhelming and exhausting to try, to put the effort into it. I didn’t want to do the work because I didn’t have the ENERGY... and since I believe in reincarnation and the afterlife, I knew my soul would be fine (whereas I used to be afraid of d(e)ath) I just wanted to give up on this life. 

I tell you all this because it’s important to know that just because you’ve found yourself on a spiritual path doesn’t mean you’re going to magically be cured of your struggles. It means you have the tools to heal and progress — but tools are useless without a person to operate them.

The problem is you may not have the energy to swing a hammer or even raise a paintbrush. That’s okay. Start smaller, even if it’s something like scrolling Pinterest for interior decorating ideas.

This analogy may be getting a little out of control. What I’m getting at is that even when you don’t feel like applying any of this shit, keep surrounding yourself with good vibes. Read the books, watch the uplifting videos… surround yourself with people and content that spark something in your soul. Don’t give up, even if you need to pause and rest. The inspiration will come. 

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Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The F Here are what expert Carol Bowman has dubbed The Four Signs in determining whether your kid is remembering a past life or is just making shit up for fun. It should be noted that a child doesn’t have to exhibit ALL 4 signs for the memories to be valid. It could be any combination…

1. Matter-of-fact tone — It’s not just *what* the child is saying. It’s *how* they say it. It’s not something silly that’s just made up on the spot. It’s factual to them. It is said with the same confidence as telling you what their teacher’s name is or that they’re holding a blue cup of chocolate milk. Oftentimes, the kid’s tone and voice will change a bit - as though they are suddenly much older than their actual years. Like the child who said he was once “betrothed.” Kinda creepy, right?

2. Consistency over time — Think about all those criminal shows that teach us how to catch a person who is lying.  For one thing, when a person tells a lie (or a kid is just making up a story) it’s harder to keep the story straight if they have to tell it more than once. With untruths, you are *creating* something, not *remembering* it. So, yeah, if your kids is repeatedly telling you the same story of something that happened in his “old life” it’s probably a real memory. (This doesn’t mean he won’t possibly ADD to the story if he remembers more later.) 

3. Knowledge beyond experience - The internet is full of videos showcasing child prodigies. While every child who recalls a past life won’t be a 2yo concert pianist, it’s not uncommon for a kid to have shocking knowledge or a skill he didn’t learn from his family. And plenty of these cases existed long before iPads and YouTube.

Corresponding behavior and traits — This one kinda overlaps with the last sign, but it also includes things like phobias, strange food preferences, and mannerisms, etc. This may also show up as physical characteristics like a birthmark that corresponds with a fatal wound in the last life or as a birth defect ((like my son who was literally born with his intestines out of his body and had to be rushed into surgery)). Dr. Ian Stevenson did EXTENSIVE research on this particular category.
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If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s yo If you find yourself doing this a lot, here’s your reminder that your needs and wants are just as important as anyone else’s. Slow down, take a moment, do something wild and crazy and selfish like drink your coffee while it’s still hot 😂

#selfcarefirst #selflovetips #souls #souljourney #anxietyproblems
Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re bei Pause for a moment. You can tell when you’re being pushed by fear and when you’re being inspired by joy.

If you’re panicking that a project won’t turn out perfectly, if you struggle to hear even minor criticism, if you have a meltdown the moment things don’t go as planned… That means more concerned with the outcome than the process. 

And THAT is a sign that you’ve been conditioned to believe you have to *earn* love…that your worth is determined by your accomplishments.

My darling, sweet soul. That is not true.

You don’t have to *do* anything. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.

So if you *do* decide to pursue something, let it be inspired by genuine interest and bliss. It’s hard for us action-based humans to grasp this, but that is the whole point of being here. 

#selfloveclub #recoveringperfectionist #recoveringpeoplepleaser #souls #souljourney #spiritualjourney
Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can Bruh. Being a human is scary sometimes. It’ can be hard not knowing what comes next.
Watching an episode of Modern Family or The Office for the hundredth time is actually a pretty healthy way to deal with those anxious moments.

Meditation has been a  fantastic resource for me (and so is drinking water and getting in a good workout blah blah) but it won’t help you if it’s something you dread, something that feels boring, something that  feels like an obligation… 

BUT did you know that watching a funny show or a comforting movie is its own form of trance and can have similar benefits? You’re allowed to decompress without feeling guilty about it. It doesn’t make you less spiritual to watch Golden Girls. 
It’s actually a great way to raise your vibration ✨ 

#souljourney #spiritualreels #raiseyourvibration #selflovetips #anxietyproblems #anxietytips
This, of course, is not a comprehensive list. It’s not even a full list of all the books on the subject that I or have read. The point being there is *so* much valid material out there on reincarnation, past lives, souls, the afterlife, etc.

You can see a good list of books I recommend on my website (l i n k in b i o) or message/comment if you want to send you the l!nk. 

Feeling overwhelmed? Here are a few of my personal favorites to start with:

Life Before Life by Jim B Tucker, MD

Old Souls by Tom Shroder

Children Who Remember Previous Lives by Dr. Ian Stevenson

Between Death and Life by Dolores Cannon

The Children that Time Forgot by Peter & Mary Harrison 

#reincarnation #souls #souljourney #pastlives #spiritualreels
The real question is does the plant *like* to be t The real question is does the plant *like* to be touched..? Does it feel like affection… or like being tickled… or is this poor plant cringing… Is it recoiling from me?? I need answers 😅😅
Honestly, what the f*ck were we thinking? 😅 #r Honestly, what the f*ck were we thinking? 😅

#reincarnation #souljourney #pastlife #souls #dolorescannon

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